Divorce & Khula in Islam & Divorce Law in Pakistan
Divorce, Divorce Law- Khula in Islam and Legal Procedure Pakistan
Khula and Divorce in Islam and Pakistan—Legal Process, Religious Perspective, and Women’s Rights
Understanding Khula and Divorce in Islam and Pakistani Law
Khula and Divorce in Islam and Pakistan are essential legal and religious concepts that provide an exit from a broken marriage when mutual respect, love, and understanding are lost. While Islam encourages the preservation of the marital bond, it also acknowledges that some unions may not survive despite best efforts. In such cases, the law allows for the dissolution of marriage through Divorce (Talaq) or Khula, depending on the circumstances and who initiates the process.
The Sanctity of Marriage in Islam
Islam places immense importance on maintaining a healthy and harmonious relationship between spouses. A strong marriage, based on mutual respect and compassion, is seen as the foundation of a happy home. The Holy Qur’an and the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) emphasize that marriage should be sustained with patience and kindness. Breaking the marital bond is considered a last resort, only to be exercised when reconciliation becomes impossible.
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) stated:
“Among the lawful things, divorce is the most hated by Allah.”
This highlights that while divorce is permissible in Islam, it should not be taken lightly or used carelessly. It is only acceptable when there is no other way to maintain peace and dignity for both spouses.
Divorce (Talaq) in Islamic and Pakistani Law
Divorce (Talaq) refers to the husband’s right to unilaterally dissolve the marriage under Islamic law. However, the Husband’s right to Talaq is bound by procedures and formalities, especially under Pakistani family law.
✅ Types of Talaq in Islam:
Talaq-e-Ahsan – The most preferred and revocable form of divorce, involving a single pronouncement followed by a waiting period (Iddah).
Talaq-e-Hasan – Involves three pronouncements over three different tuhrs (menstrual cycles).
Talaq-e-Bid’ah – Instant triple Talaq, considered sinful by many scholars but still valid in some legal contexts.
In Pakistan, once Talaq is pronounced, it must be formally communicated to the wife and the local Union Council, which initiates a 90-day reconciliation process. If reconciliation fails, a divorce certificate is issued by the Union Council.
What is Khula? Women’s Right to Separation in Islam
Khula is the right of a Muslim woman to seek divorce from her husband, primarily through a court of law, when she feels she cannot live with him within the limits prescribed by Allah. Unlike Talaq, which is exercised by the husband, Khula requires judicial intervention if the husband does not agree to release her from the marriage.
In Khula, the wife usually returns her Haq Meher or other dower benefits as compensation to the husband, though this may vary depending on the situation. Under Pakistani law, a woman must file a Khula petition in the Family Court, and upon proving that she cannot continue the marriage due to incompatibility or harm, the court grants a decree of Khula.
Legal Procedure for Khula in Pakistan
The Khula process in Pakistan involves the following steps:
Filing a Khula Petition in the Family Court through a lawyer.
Court Notice to Husband for appearance and response.
Court Hearings and Reconciliation Attempts (required by law).
Court’s Decision based on the irretrievable breakdown of marriage.
Issuance of Khula Decree followed by the Union Council divorce certificate.
If the husband fails to appear, the court may proceed ex-parte. Once the decree is granted, the Family Court directs the Union Council to issue the divorce certificate.
Difference Between Khula and Divorce (Talaq)
| Aspect | Talaq (Divorce) | Khula |
|---|---|---|
| Initiated by | Husband | Wife |
| Court Involvement | Not required unless disputed | Mandatory |
| Return of Haq Meher | Not required | Often returned by the wife |
| Reconciliation | Union Council (90 days) | Family Court + Union Council |
| Legal Route | Simple declaration + registration | Judicial decree required |
When Divorce or Khula Becomes Necessary
Islam considers divorce and Khula as last-resort options, only when:
Mutual respect and affection are lost
Constant conflict leads to psychological or physical harm
One party becomes abusive, negligent, or fails in obligations
The relationship becomes toxic or hostile for either spouse
In such cases, it is more merciful and just to part ways than to suffer in a harmful environment.
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“Divorce”- Meaning in Urdu
The primitive meaning of the word “DIVORCE” in Urdu is “Talaq”. Talaq is basically an Arabic word, used for divorce, which means “to make free or to untie the knot”. In the terminology of the jurists, the word “divorce” or “talaq” signifies the dissolution of marriage or the annulment of its legality by the pronouncement of words or talaq.
Now it is being used in almost every language in the Muslim world. It literally means “to set free”, “to let go”, or to free oneself from any restrictions or ties. According to Muslim Law, it means freedom from the bondage of marriage and from any other kind of bondage. This means the husband’s dissolution of the marriage using the appropriate words. Basically, Talaq is the
husband’s repudiation of marriage according to the law.
Types of Divorce (Talaq)
A Muslim Pakistani man, if inclined to dissolve his matrimonial ties with his wife, can dissolve his marriage by pronouncing Divorce (Talaq) to his wife. A Muslim husband may Divorce (Talaq) his wife by repudiating the marriage without giving any reason. Disowning the wife simply requires the use of words that indicate his intent to do so. This is commonly done through talaq. It is also possible to divorce (Talaq), and Zohar, which is only different in form from Talaq, not in substance.
A wife cannot Divorce (Talaq) the husband of her own accord. She can Divorce (Talaq) the husband only when the husband has delegated such a right to her or under an agreement. Under an agreement, the wife may get a divorce (Talaq) from her husband either by Khula or Mubar’at (mutual consent). Before 1939, a Muslim wife had no right to seek divorce (Talaq) except on the ground of false charges of adultery, insanity, or impotency of the husband. But the Dissolution of Muslim Marriages Act 1939, lays down several other grounds based on which a Muslim wife may get a Divorce (Talaq) decree passed by the order of the court.
Muslim law recognizes two categories of Divorce (Talaq):
1.) Extra judicial Divorce (Talaq), and
2.) Judicial Divorce (Talaq)
The category of extrajudicial Divorce (Talaq) can be further subdivided into three types, namely,
- i) By husband- Talaq, Ila, and Zihar.
- ii) By wife- Talaq-i-Tafweez,
iii) With mutual agreement-Khula and Mubara’at.
Under the Dissolution of Muslim Marriages Act 1939, the wife has the right to give Divorce (Talaq).
DIVORCE (TALAQ) PROCEDURE
If you are a resident of Pakistan and are Muslim by belief and are willing to dissolve your wedding relationship with your wife, you can dissolve your marriage by pronouncing three times the words with a clear intention of Divorce (Talaq) to your wife.
People should know that about triple talaq in one sitting, there is nothing divine. In fact, the Holy Qur’an does not permit it. Moreover, it destroys the future of several women without a plausible reason. Most of the Muslim-majority states have reformed the triple talaq laws and consider triple talaq in one go to be one only.
Divorce Papers or Divorce Deed
You are also under obligation by law to write down a document of divorce in which you declare that you have divorced (Talaq) your wife.
HOW TO REGISTER A DIVORCE (TALAQ) IN PAKISTAN BY A HUSBAND?
As per law, a Pakistani husband who wants to divorce (Talaq) his wife, will require to execute a written Divorce (Talaq) deed. Divorce (Talaq) can be executed by pronouncing 3 Divorce (Talaq) at one sitting or issuing one Divorce (Talaq) each month. Under the laws of Pakistan, no provision bars or prohibits husbands from making 3 Divorce (Talaq) pronouncements in one go. Written Divorce (Talaq) must be executed on a non-judicial stamp paper.
After the written Divorce (Talaq) is executed, the husband is required to send a copy of the Divorce Deed (Talaq Nama) to the wife. What is important to note is that the husband under the Family laws of Pakistan is required to apply with Chairman Union Council within 7 seven days from the date of written Divorce (Talaq) for issuance of the Divorce (Talaq) Effectiveness Certificate.
Divorce Registration Certificate
On receiving such a request, the chairman of the union council shall appoint an arbitration committee to proceed with the application and attempt to make reconciliation between husband and wife. Each party shall receive notice to appear before the Arbitration Committee of the Union Council. In case no reconciliation is effected between parties within 90 days, a Divorce Registration Certificate will be issued and the dissolution of marriage under Pakistani law will be effective.
HOW TO REGISTER A DIVORCE (TALAQ) IN PAKISTAN BY A WIFE?
A Pakistani Muslim wife cannot divorce (Talaq) under the laws of Pakistan unless she has the delegated power of pronouncing divorce (Talaq) given by her husband and that is written in Nikahnama. In that case, the Wife can issue a divorce (Talaq) to the husband. The procedure of Divorce (Talaq) in case of use of delegated authority by the wife shall be the same as provided above. The only difference is that instead of husband-wife shall execute Divorce (Talaq) and request a divorce (Talaq) Certificate from the Chairman, Union Council.
WHAT IS KHULA PROCEDURE IN PAKISTAN BY THE WIFE?
Khula is right if a Muslim wife in Pakistan can be exercised where the husband is not willing to divorce (talaq) his wife, but the wife wishes to dissolve the marriage and does not have the delegated power of divorce (talaq). The procedure for Khula is as follows:
The wife is required to appoint a family lawyer, who shall prepare a Khula case after considering your grievance and file a suit of Khula in Family Court
The wife is required to appear before the Family Court once to make a statement. Thereafter, the court will issue a decree of khula.
Upon obtaining the decree of khula, the wife will need to obtain a Divorce Registration Certificate from the Union Council in which the Nikah was registered or where the wife temporarily resides.